right about a year ago i posted about meeting this wonderful guy and our first weekend "together". yeah, that's a thing of the past. turns out he was a lying cheating bastard and told me i needed to "get over it". needless to say i kicked his ass to the curb with several choice words about what a piece of shit i thought he was. damn asswipe wasn't good for anything. wait, i take that back. he did introduce me to the art of giving a blow job and i have found, despite my misgivings, that i really do enjoy it. the contrasting feeling of softness and hardness both at the same time. mmmmm. yummy. makes me just want to lick it like a lolli-pop then run my tongue ring around and around it. that drove him crazy. now if only i could try a couple different ones cuz i know they're not all the same. maybe one day soon.

ringing in the new year this year started out as a dud, but by the time the new year was here for a few years, it had definitely turned around. after texting everyone happy new year, i got a response from my married friend telling me that we needed to come over to his place, they were having a party. so after leaving the dud of a party we were at, my girlfriend and i headed over there. wound up playing drinking jenga for hours before everyone finally left. my girlfriend and i were the last ones to get things together to leave when he started literally begging for me to stay, just for a little bit longer he says. he'd take me home. he just wanted me to stay for a little bit. yeah, i know why he wanted me to stay, hahaha. same reason we were the last ones to start to head out! finally i give in to him. i'm such a sucker for getting laid.

the following is what i sent my girlfriend (the one that has joined me in one of my previous adventures) the day after:

why do guys say shit they don't mean when they're in the middle of extra curricular activities? i was told things that i'd love to hear from a guy, but the wrong guy is saying them. he asked me why i fuck him. uh.... cuz it's the only thing i seem to be able to get without selling myself. i told him because i enjoy it. he asked me if i was in love with him. i wouldn't answer him. his punk ass STOPPED until i said what he wanted, that yeah i did. he said, say it. so i did. anything to shut him up and get him off that subject. did it work? hell no. he asked me if he was single would i marry him? i said it would all depend. on what he asks. on a lot of things, but the point is, you're not. he said that even if he was married to me, he'd still want to sleep with you. asked me if that would bother me. i said i seriously doubt it. 'really?!' i said, well yeah, she's my best friend, we've already been there with you. it didn't bother me then, i doubt it would bother me in the future. he said that he can't help want to fuck me. he wants to all the time and hopes that the next time will be a lot sooner than the year it has been. that he has fallen in love with me. wtf? i'm thinking, dude, i know you and jen have a very open relationship and she has no problems with you sleeping with me, but you say you're in love with me and i think that she might and you're gonna lose this good thing you've got going. we're friends with benefits. nothing more. you're married with kids and i'm not going to be that other woman that breaks a marriage up. (okay so i didn't think all this in the middle of having sex cuz i was more worried about, well, having sex, but this has all been going through my mind since then.) we finished, got dressed and he was driving me home saying things about being unhappy with his life. about how jen was home for two weeks and did nothing around the house. oh shit, don't be talkin to me about that!!! i'm involved with you, but not like that! we made it to my house, he kissed me and left. ass didn't even make sure i made it into the house okay. :P i'm not taking any of this to heart, treating it as drunken, mid-sex stupor and ignore that he ever said it to me, but damnit, why can't i get a normal (non-married, willing to devote himself to me forever and ever *lol*) guy to say this kind of shit to me?

since my last blog, a while back, things have changed considerably... i haven't seen my friend and his wife since early december, not that he hasn't tried to get me to come over, i just haven't been able to. now though, i don't see it happening again. i met someone. finally! we met online actually. he lived in WV and i here in TX. that was not a fun time, but this past weekend he moved here to TX and i got to meet him. in the time that i have known him, we have become very comfortable talking to each other about anything. below is a bit of the activities that transpired this weekend.

wow, the changes that have happened in just a few days are amazing. friday night i finally got to meet CS. initial reaction, honestly, was not the greatest....he stunk to high heaven...lol. but i won't hold that against him since he had been on and off a plane for the last 7 hours. he smelled much better after he'd had a shower. :o) i was very uncomfortable in the beginning but that's just how i am with people i meet for the first time. by the end of the weekend though, there was no reason to be uncomfortable. it was just like talking to him on the phone only better...i get kisses now, real ones. (god i can't wait for the next one)

so friday night he gets here and i take him to my place where he and cj (his 15 month old son) are going to stay. we get the introductions out of the way and everyone settles down. after a while i kinda hint that there is a shower upstairs if he would like to use it...lol. he did and the change was amazing. we got the kids settled down with a movie then went in my room so i could finish some drawings and he could play on the computer. after we got those things out of the way, we put our own movie and lay down. must say though that we didn't do much watching of the movie. ;o) and that was one that i really want to see...eventually. we played for a little bit, nothing major, and slept for a while until my son came in. i got him taken care of and back in bed then we played some more...a lot more, lol. i have come to realize just how well that man knows how to use his tongue. oh. my. god. make a woman pass out from pleasure...lol. i just can't get enough of that!

saturday morning we all got up early so i could go to school. when i got home, jay was there being a sort of buffer between him and my parents, but apparently he didn't need it cuz they were getting along great...lol. mikhai and cj were outside playing to their hearts content. those two got along great. After a while we went inside and just hung out with the kids then took off for the store so he could buy some clippers to shave his head again. Yummy, I just love me a man with a bald head. When mom and dad got home, we put in Harry Potter and cuddled together on the couch until it was over. Mom and dad went to bed before us and took mikhai with them. Krys went up a little after the movie was over, finally. Right before the movie ended and the whole time that krys is lolly-gaggin around, he had his hand under the blanket teasing the crap outta me. I'm trying my damnedest not to show any reaction and krys is taking her dear sweet time. Finally she heads upstairs and we get to really making out and the little shit comes back downstairs. Grrr!!!! She gets what she needs and we get back to it and my phone buzzes. It's my GF. *sigh* I love ya hon, BUT!!! She told me that she just got invited home for a threesome, which is awesome and I told her so, but she was interrupting a great make-out (it took me forever to type that and the spelling was atrocious cuz someone was making sure that my concentration was elsewhere…lol.) when I finally get rid of all the distractions, business got down to...if ya know what I mean. That man has a mean tongue. Wow. After torturing me with his tongue for a while, we decide it's time to go back upstairs. I get Mikhai from my parents and put him in bed, put a movie on that i've already seen a million and one times so that if i miss anything, it's not that big a deal...and crawl in bed with CS and we continue what we started downstairs. i litterally pat him on the back for how great a job he did, lmao! we snuggled together and fell asleep like that.

mikhai climbed in bed with me about 3:30 in the morning and i was just going to let him pass out and put him back in his bed but i fell asleep too and didn't realize it until CS said that he was going to go sleep downstairs. i told him no, i will move mikhai. so i did and i crawled back in bed with him. this was about 5am. i sat there in contemplation for about 30 minutes. i really wanted to tell him to make love to me, i wanted to do something for him. he had been so great to me over the weekend that i couldn't just let him go home with nothing from me although he never once asked me for any favors or even hinted that he wanted any. so i lay there with him for 30 minutes before i finally had to do something before it was too late. so i got up and used the restroom. when i came back in the room i stripped bare and crawled back in bed. he stirred and said hi baby and i told him to turn over. he did and we started kissing and he rubbed his hand down my side and didn't encounter any clothes. i hope it shocked him. he kissed and licked my nipples and played with me for a minute then came back up and kissed me when i asked him to make love to me. i think he was thinkin he was hearing things cuz he asked me to say it again, in his ear. he didn't wait for me to say it a third time but got busy fulfilling my request. a girl couldn't have it any better than i did. i can't wait for the next time. we finished and he asked me what brought that on and i told him that it was just thank you for everything this weekend. he then told me that i was perfect. he's so good for my ego. :o)

he went out to smoke after and when he came back he said he was wide awake so he got on the computer to play for a little bit. he was reading some questions on a survey and several of them he was answering with a sexual connotation and i was having to hit him every time. he just got this big ass grin on his face. well not long after the kids started waking up so we were up unfortunately. we did get to take a little nap together for about an hour i think, but he reminded me that i needed to get up so that i could take him and cj home. we got up, mom made breakfast, they teased the crap outta me and then the four of us headed out to take him home. it's not that bad of a drive actually. i see myself making that drive quite a bit in the near future...lol. we were pulling up to his dad's place when he asked me when he could see me again. honestly i don't know. with school being on a saturday and all, i have to work around that. if i drive out and stay, i miss class that week. if i drive out and bring them back, i'll be making the trip twice in one weekend. *sigh* if i want to see him, i'll be doing one of the two. and i really want to see him. my next goal is to get him a lot closer so that seeing him isn't so lengthy on the drive...lol.

So it’s been a while since I last posted about any extra curricular activities with my friend and his wife. Unfortunately that would be because there hasn’t been anything to post about. Until last night, or this morning, that is…..and if this one seems to be pretty long, that could just be that it’s still fresh in my mind (and on my body) I swear every time I think about anything from this morning I get wet again. So on to my story........

The evening started out with me and a girlfriend from work going out with the idea of hooking up with her boyfriend and one of his friends that I was to meet. That didn’t work out and since she had never been to one of the local country dance halls so I took her there and we had a good time. For about an hour. She is a very mousy woman and I’m not brave enough to walk up to a stranger and ask them to dance, so we got really bored, really fast. Well, at least I did. I’m not sure about her. But in my boredom I sent a text message out to a bunch of friends telling them where I was and that I was bored and someone needed to save me. Please. I got a couple responses that were funny, but the one that I was most excited about was the one from my married friend. He told me that I should come over to his friends’ house with him and his wife. I convinced the girlfriend that was with me to leave, but she didn’t want to go all the way out to where he was so we went back to her place so that I could get my car. I took off and headed over to his friends’ place.

Nothing exciting there. I did get in trouble by my GF for going over there and not calling her. But other than that, we drank a little, laughed a little and finally decided around 4am that it was time to leave. As we’re getting our things gathered up he starts to play with his phone and lo and behold my phone starts to go off. He’s sent me a text message saying that I was going home with them. Well, alrighty then. I’m not going to argue with that. ;o) We get to his place and all go inside and take care of necessary things like letting the dog out taking shit off the bed, etc. His wife climbs in bed and looks like she is going to sleep, he undresses me and tells me to get in bed then climbs in behind me. He’s reaching over me to mess with her and she is just not into it. I thought they were going to get in a fight and it was really awkward for a minute when she left the room, but he took off after her and cam back after a minute saying that she just was “not interested in joining the fun tonight, I hope that doesn’t bother you.” Hell no, that means more for me!!!!

So he starts kissing me and playing with me and then moves down my body. Oh good Lord, if he stopped any time this year I was going to be mad. He was in a mighty playful mood though cuz he decided to tease me by just entering the tip and holding there. None of my squirming was helping me get any more of him either. He asked me if I liked being fucked by him. Oh yeah, no doubt about that. Then he asked me when the last time I got fucked was and I told him the last time I was over here. I didn’t understand why he kept telling me not to lie to him but realized after a little bit that the last time I was over there we just sat in the garage talking and didn’t actually do anything. All this time that he’s talking to me he’s still teasing me by only giving me a little bit at a time. He’s making me beg for more and then only gives a little. Damn tease. Lol. He asked me if my GF enjoyed being fucked by him the last time we were together. I said yes, although we have determined that she is not allowed to go first. He asked why that was. I said that he spent all his time with her and I only got a little bit of it, not that it wasn’t good, but I wanted more. So next time, I get to go first. He just kinda chuckled at that and asked if that was part of the reason I was in trouble for being over there without her. He said that he never saw himself actually fucking her although he’s fantasized about it plenty. I said oh really. He said yeah, every guy fantasizes about sleeping with girls they are around often and he was around her a LOT for a long time.

I think after this the conversation dwindled to nothing more than kinky talk. Oh yeah…he did ask if I gave good head. I had to laugh cuz we have already had this conversation and the answer is I wouldn’t know because I never have. He said that we would change that tonight. He was going to have me give him head when we finished. Okay whatever you say. Business eventually got done (Thank God) and I’m thinking he forgot about that cuz, I’m still a virgin in that respect. We cleaned up and he brought his wife back in the room and we all passed out pretty quickly after that with his wife in the middle of the two of us. They really sleep like the dead cuz their damned alarm when off not long after and neither one of them budged!!! I had to get up and figure out what to do to turn the damned thing off!!! Finally I got back to sleep and a few hours later the positions changed when his wife got up. She crawled back in on the other side of him when she came back so I got snuggled. That’s a very different sensation when I’m used to a 2 year olds body snuggling with me. His wife had to get up to go get their kids so I got up too cuz I had to get home to my son. I said good-bye to her and she left. I went back into the room where he was still lazing in the bed and asked if I was going to get a hug or anything good-bye. He told me I had to come to him to get one. So I had to lay back down in the bed if I wanted anything from him; which I did. I laid down and he hugged me and nothing else until I said something about this not helping me leave. So he kissed me, then pulled my breasts out of my bra so that he could suck on them. Then he got up and pulled my shoes off and started working on my jeans. I didn’t say anything. I was secretly hoping something like this was going to happen any way. He’s undoing my jeans and mocks “no, stop, I need to leave” I told him yeah, I did need to leave, but I didn’t stop him. He asked me if I wanted to fuck him again cuz he couldn’t tell for sure. Punk. Here I am stripped from the waist down when I should be leaving and you ask that. Just hurry up and get in me! Finally after unknown hours (really just minutes) of torture he pushes all the way in and makes me a very happy woman again.

OMG, I can’t believe I forgot to mention this!!! While he was in his talking and teasing mode the first time, one of the conversations he started was to ask me if I would be interested in a few afternoon rendezvous. This was right after he asked me if I really did like fucking him…guess he just had to be sure before he asked me this. I told him that I think I could handle something like that. It wouldn’t bother me all that much to meet up with him with the intention of getting laid occasionally. So this will be a very interesting twist to the situation. I’ll update as I have more.

i believe in my first post i made a comment about "if my girlfriend had joined us, that would have been a whole 'nother story". well, it's a whole 'nother story now! she joined us after an evening out drinking.

the evening had started with just me and my GF. we went to see a band that we love and my friend and his wife called us to see what we were doing. we told them and they decided to join us. my buddy (from the previous post) joined us after he got off work. very interesting evening for me. the only two men i have been involved with, in the last, well...let's just say it's been a while, were standing on either side of me. thinking about it now, i'm surprised that i didn't melt on the spot...lol. if only we could have....oh, bad thoughts, don't go there right now!!!!

anyway. we chatted for a little bit after the show was over and since it was such an early show and we didn't want the evening to end, we took the party to another bar. we all ordered more drinks and they proceeded to get me even more drunk than i already was. one point in the evening my friend's wife comes over to me and says that she gets the vibe that my buddy and i just want to get away and fuck. "you do? we do?" hmm, amazing what kinda vibes you give off when you're drunk. but that's not how the night ended. my buddy left just before us. he was tired and i believe he had to work the next day...not sure. my friend invited my GF and i back to their place to continue drinking so we all took off for their house. on the way there my GF tells me that my friend told her he was worried that i would go home with my buddy and was really hoping we would be going home with them. yeah baby! she informed him that my buddy and i had other opportunities to hook up.

no more drinks were to be had, but that doesn't surprise me. when we all got in the house, his wife took no time stripping. she has no qualms about nakedness. my GF and i were a little slower and it took a little coercion from my friend and his wife, but we all managed to get in the same state. although as soon as he was down to his boxers he decided that was far enough for him. three women work very well together when it comes to removing one small item of clothing...lol.

I won’t provide many more details because, honestly, the rest of the evening is a little fuzzy. I was drunk and it was several weeks ago and I’ve slept since then. But I will say this...he doesn’t like to give up. I believe that my GF is a little difficult to bring to orgasm and no matter how hard he tried or how many times he came back to her...it just didn’t happen. Lmao!!!! She wore his ass out!!! We have now determined though that if/when we share again.....(ben).....I get first dibs!

After several weeks of sexual frustration, I was finally relieved. Not by him either. A buddy of mine that I have been trying to hook up with for the last four months or so FINALLY broke down and invited me to stay when I dropped him off one night. As I was driving, I was making plans to go visit my friend and his wife, but when the offer to come in was presented…..well, I just couldn’t make myself say no. I had wanted this for so long. We got in the house and went to his room. He turned on the tv and we lay on the bed. For friggin ever! That boy took forever to make a move on me. Shit, if we had started kissing as soon as we walked in the door I would have been fine!!! But when he did make his move it was very slow and tentative. The only word I can come up with to describe my experience with him is, sweet. Don’t get me wrong, it was good….he is very nicely endowed. ;o) I still can’t help comparing him to the other man in my life right now. I described the two experiences to a friend and said that I felt like sundae and they had both been starved, but both had completely different reactions to it/me. On one hand there is my buddy who I felt like was savoring the experience. Nothing rushed or faster than necessary. Light strokes and caresses. Satisfaction, but nothing explosive. On the other hand, there is the married guy who makes me feel like he just can’t get enough. He has to eat me up before I disappear. The stroking and caressing is constant and exciting. The satisfaction….wow, it’s amazing. I haven’t ever had an experience like that. So now that my buddy and I have finally hooked up, I think that’s all that’s going to happen between us. If the offer is presented again (which I seriously doubt) I will jump at the chance, but I’m not going to hold my breath.

So since I had made plans and then backed out of them, I had to call and apologize. At first I was afraid to say what I had done instead of visiting my friend and his wife, but he cajoled me and I caved. The next time I saw him I was a little timid, cuz I didn’t know how he felt about my other extra curricular activities, but as the night progressed in a very satisfying fashion, I didn’t worry for long. I think it was about two weeks after the night with my buddy that I finally managed to make it back over to his house. Once the kids were all passed out, we gathered on the couch and started watching some sex show. The woman was holding a class in a bedroom about sex. Different ways to please a woman, things that were okay to do that guys were skittish in doing and then she had a little session on spanking. We relaxed on the couch and started to get comfortable. His wife and I were on opposite ends of the couch while he lay across us, his head in my lap and his legs over hers. As his wife, she has more liberties than I do and so reached in his shorts and started to fondle his balls. Since my arm was just laying across his chest, she reached up and drew my hand into his pants so that I could play with him too. At one point the woman holding the class was talking to some friends and she said that she got a tongue ring and heard that there were little vibrator rings that you can get that can stimulate the most intimate parts. I have a tongue ring so I perked up at that and said, “oh really?!” I think he liked the thought of that cuz he got harder than what he already was. His wife and I were content where we were for the time being, but apparently he couldn’t take any more ;o) and told us it was time to continue this in the bedroom. His wife got up to do something and he rolled over to face me and I finally got a kiss. It was one of those “god I wanna fuck you now” types….wonderful way to start. We get in the room and she wastes no time in removing her clothes. I start to work on mine when he comes up to me and says we need to get me out of my clothes and proceeds to take them off me. It’s so nice when someone else takes your clothes off for you. It’s a little more sensual and exciting. I take my clothes off every day and there is nothing exciting about it, but when he did it, with his roaming hands massaging my breasts and touching me…..now THAT is exciting. We all climbed in the bed and wound up in a line. She was going down on me while he was doing her from behind. This didn’t last very long because she looked up and said that she wanted to see him fuck me from behind so we switched, but instead of getting in front of me, she went to get her toy. I mentioned we were watching the sex show and she had a session on spanking, well he must have thought that was exciting because I got spanked. Hard. Once on each cheek. As she was orgasming she was screaming “oh baby fuck her, oh baby…..” He said, “I think she gets more excited watching you and me than anything.” Yeah, I think so too….I’m not complaining in the least, though.

After we were through, she and I took a shower while he went to smoke. I was soaping my body and ran my hands over my ass and had to do it again just to figure out what the hell was on it. Turns out it was welts from being spanked. The punk left welts on my ass!!!! Lol…

The evenings activities must have been a little too much for him because when I went to go look for him after my shower, he was passed out on the couch in the garage. Poor guy is getting old, haha!!